Their friends keep inviting them to sleepovers. I’ve said “yes” a few times but it always ends up being the biggest mistake. My kids come home tired and grouchy. They’re too tired to get homework done or go to their sports. Then we feel obligated to pay the favor back and host their friends. This is even worse. My weekends are totally taken over with entertaining the guest, preparing snacks, turning over our family room so they can watch kid movies, getting up early to cook a breakfast feast..