Are you wrong for tapping him in the middle of church service, prayer, communion because he is asleep AND SNORING?? REALLY?? You actually need an answer for that? And he wants to throw in that you are acting like his mother. If his mother was there, trust me the work “HYMNAL” would be tatooed across his face from where she slapped him with it. How utterly embarrasing. Next time, excuse yourself to go to the restroom, come back and sit on the other side of the church. Let him embarass himself without distracting you and trust me, someone sitting behind him is going to poke him. so when he wants to know why you just left him sitting there, tell him “i didn’t want you to feel i was mothering you and if i wanted to hear you snore i can do that at nighttime” and smile sweetly.