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How to be friends with my ex (who left me after telling me I was the perfect man the night before).

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Mate 1

So when we broke up suddenly she told me she really wanted to be friends but it was really hard for me to accept. I have dated another girl since but I still miss her alot. I have tried to contact her (very sparingly)and want to stay friends but she isn’t reciprocating at all.

Mate 2

She told her friend she was afraid to let me back into her life even a little bit because she is afraid I will coming running back to her. But I haven’t done anything to show that I would come back to her.

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yotleo

Dude, she is entitled to all the space she wants. You want to be friends now, but she is not ready and I suspect neither are you. You may be the perfect man, but not for her. Move on with your life, keep your fond memories of her, and see what happens in the future.

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Doug

M2 give up on the relationship and don’t look back! Obviously this gal (M1)doesn’t have the guts to say what she really thinks and perhaps she doesn’t really know what she wants. What ever the case she hasn’t been honest with you. Life is too short begging for someones attention, when there plenty more fish in the sea who will give you the attention and respect.

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Elise

Being friends does not seem to be practical at this point. You can’t just forget about your past, especially when you were hurt that much.

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Dane

what is the problem? she isn’t reciprocating at all, afraid you will come running back to her…she knows how you are. i don’t see the problem. she said she wanted to still be friends….all men and women say that to make the break up easier on the other person. Catch some snap, she does not want you in her life.

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queen

Mate 1 – If she doesn’t want you, you can’t make her want you. Move on.

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queen

Mate 1 – If she doesn’t want you, you can’t make her want you. Move on.

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darkwillie69

“She broke up with you, and then told her friend she is afraid you will come running back”, sounds like you need to invite the friend to join the both of you.

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Lynn (VIP)

While i usually advise girls not to turn your man into a “girlfriend” the spa experience seems to be your man’s idea. My vote is with your Metro Man. Stop worrying about what you think other’s think. It will drive a wedge between you and drive you nuts besides. Color yourself lucky.

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