CouplesSpark Latest Conflicts

Oral Pleasures, why not ?

Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:48:06 -0500

She doesn’t know how much I enjoy her oral pleasures. I am on cloud 9, and she just does not want to do this for me, unless she is drunk.

My mom has unrealizable expectations

Thu, 02 Feb 2012 03:22:49 -0500

No matter what I do she is still not happy with me. I do nice things for her but find myself avoiding time together because it’s never good enough.

Crabs ?

Thu, 02 Feb 2012 02:55:54 -0500

I prefer them deep fried

My GF wakes me up in the middle of the night to bang the head board, and sometimes I just want to sleep... I mean really sleep, what to do ?

Thu, 02 Feb 2012 02:53:53 -0500

I prefer the morning boner….

Profile pictures and little lies

Mon, 09 Jan 2012 12:37:14 -0500

My boyfriend posted a profile picture of him with a very attractive girl on his Facebook. He met her in Jamaica on vacation a little while back.Normally, this wouldn’t bother me but his friends posted comments telling him his gf is hot. He did not correct them or remove the comments. He said he didn’t have time to change it but he was very active on FB that day on my newsfeed.

Girlfriend allowing friends to sleep in our bed

Wed, 28 Dec 2011 04:02:19 -0500

we live together and are university students. my problem that i have is that she will continuously have these friends (female primarily but sometimes a male) spend the night and sleep in our bed with her when i’m away. I trust that she’s not cheating. my biggest concern is that my bed doesn’t feel “ours”. i dont see the reason for friends to share the bed, the couch works just fine.

Uncompassionate/unempathetic husband

Tue, 20 Dec 2011 19:41:20 -0500

My husband of 7 years has lost his compassion & empathy for me and our (my biological children). He is tough love all the way. His change in manner makes me and the children feel we can’t do anything right. He constantly tells us he loves us and can’t live without us but I need my husband to have real compassion & empathy in certain situations. I am not physically attracted to his tough love personality. I have talked to him about this multiple times and it always ends up with it being my fault he is the way he is. I am intelligent, bubbly, friendly and kind towards others. He is like a stone most of the time. When we are alone, he is intelligent and fun to be around. Around others, the stone appears. I don’t want to give up on this man because he used to have it in him.

I can't choose between my boyfriend and a new guy.

Wed, 14 Dec 2011 16:22:01 -0500

Boyfriend: I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with him for 3 years and been friends with him for 6 years. He treats me like a queen when we are together, but I find myself having to keep communication alive when he’s gone. I have asked him to try to communicate with me more multiple times, but nothing ever changes. I worry that he doesn’t love me, but doesn’t know how to tell me either.

Naming our child.

Thu, 08 Dec 2011 02:28:05 -0500

My girlfriend has a son named Jaden. She is pregnant with our child and likes the name Landen. While I like the name, I feel people will think we’re trying to do an “en” theme. Morever, I think if we have a third child and their name is different, they’re going to wonder why they didn’t get the “en”!

Friends with an old crush

Tue, 22 Nov 2011 16:31:45 -0500

My BF is still “best friends” with a girl he used to like (but she told him she just wants to be friends.) He is constantly texting her, going over to hang out one on one,and they even took a nap together! (separate beds)I think she keeps him around for the attention and I don’t want them hanging out so frequently. Is it fair that I ask him to see her less?

He believes in astrology because his family does.

Tue, 22 Nov 2011 01:32:16 -0500

We decided to plan our marriage in December because it’s convenient for both to take vacation around that time. His family believes in astrology and according to them, it won’t be good time to marry.So,now,he says he is getting negative vibes and doesn’t want to take any risks. Marriage is an important affair and he wants to postpone the marriage until January end (inconvenient for me at work)

my boyfriend of 14 yrs has cheated on me more than once and he thinks that there is nothing wrong with that

Sun, 13 Nov 2011 11:09:32 -0500

nd have tried so hard to make it work i go to counseling he does not he says he has tried but how can that be when he is cheating and breaking promises?

Double standard ,my wife can have friends over and have drinks with them when ever she wants. If her sisters in town a friend is having problems etc.

Thu, 29 Sep 2011 08:41:46 -0400

When my wife comes home and I have friends over she freaks out. I make sure the inside is clean, I have 2 or 3 friends over we are drinking on the front porch with a little music, quiet and respectful, with the Windows closed so she doesnt hear or smell smoke. It’s 1 time a week.

My wife of 2,5 years told me she cheated on me. She says they only kissed through the night. Lots of booze. No sex.

Tue, 20 Sep 2011 17:23:42 -0400

I have neglegted her the past few months, due to stress, etc. We went out with friends, I went home cause I didn’t enjoy it. She stayed behind and scored a random guy. Don’t know if I can trust her again.

We can't agree on which house to buy. I want one house, while he wants another.

Sat, 17 Sep 2011 15:44:29 -0400

I found a house I really like. It’s in a great neighborhood with great schools, lots of square footage, the home value in this area is great. It is much closer to my job than the house he wants. I am the one getting the mortgage and buying the house, because he is self-employed and proving his income will be hard. He wants a different house and refuses to even consider the house I like.

She's a virgin, I'm not. Weve been together for one month. She doesn't know I masturbate. Should I stop masturbating until she's ready? Or keep at it?

Mon, 12 Sep 2011 15:35:53 -0400

So my girlfriend of one month is a virgin. In fact I’m her first boyfriend and the only guy she’s ever even held hands with. Because she’s a virgin, I feel somewhat guilty about masturbating. Should I stop?

Two Places to live

Sun, 11 Sep 2011 23:18:01 -0400

Got a job, have to work in a town w/ population of 4000. Nothing there, middle of desert. Could live an hour and half away, better for families. We have a little girl. More to do, better schools, closer to big city. Newer and cheaper housing. Could possibly commute with other employees.

Hubby makes sexual comments! (The other post won't let me view votes or comments, so I had to repost!)

Sun, 11 Sep 2011 17:31:57 -0400

Hubby makes inappropriate sexual comments around my family & friends.They aren’t about us.They are about sex & sex toys!I’ve asked him to stop but he won’t.My family has made comments about it.He’s 49 yrs old.It’s time to grow up!

hubby makes sexual comments in front of others

Sun, 11 Sep 2011 12:29:25 -0400

When we’re around friends or sometimes even family, my husband makes sexual comments about very private things.Not necessarily about us, but sex & toys in general. I feel so uncomfortable when he does this. My family has made comments to me about it!He said it’s not a big deal. He doesn’t see anything wrong with it.I’ve asked him to stop,but he continues. I’m left humiliated at times.

Left behind!

Sat, 10 Sep 2011 22:32:43 -0400

We were going to go to a movie/happyhour. We were to leave home @ 6:10. Movie started @ 7:00 I was home by6:05 but he left w/o me.He called me & said he was on his way to movie.He left w/o me because he wanted to get there early, I could drive myself. I told him to come back & pick me up.(he was only 1 mile away. He refused & went without me. I stayed home alone. He doesn’t think it was a big deal

He doesn't believe in gay "marriage"...:(!!!

Sun, 28 Aug 2011 17:00:22 -0400

So, my boyfriend and I got into a talk about controversial subjects and gay marriage came up. While I am pro-HUMAN RIGHTS and believe that sexuality shouldn’t affect your life, he says he just can’t bring himself to call it a “marriage”…and that kinda ticks me off…he believes they should have the same rights and procedures (wedding) as anyone else…but it can’t be called a “marriage”?! WTF?!

My husband spent $400 dollars (over half of his check) on a guitar and an effects box and I didn't see a penny, couldn't even get gas for my car.

Sat, 27 Aug 2011 02:45:29 -0400

After not working for almost the first two full years since we were married, my husband finally got a job. He’s been working there for a couple of months, and he spent $400 (over half of his last check) on a guitar and an effects box for it, and effectively blew his entire check in less than twenty-fours, leaving me with nothing for gas to drive him to work.

I don't know whether I should stay with my girlfriend of a year and a half or break up with her

Wed, 17 Aug 2011 22:26:25 -0400

So I have been questioning my relationship a lot lately about my girlfriend of a year and a half. She has depression and a lot of other problems and i dont think i really want to deal with it anymore, but cant make my mind up because i think i should be there to help her through this hard time, she always says she needs me but then she insults me

He wants to move out of state. She's apprehensive, but not completely opposed.

Thu, 11 Aug 2011 16:53:05 -0400

He once lived 3 hours away, but moved here to be close to me and family. From the beginning, I said I didn’t want to move away. My career is good & my family & friends are here. Now, he is having a hard time finding employment & is annoyed by the lifestyle here – he wants to move & wants me to want such, soon. I’m not opposed, but Im not certain I’d even WANT to.

My partner insists on talking to her ex.

Wed, 10 Aug 2011 12:56:59 -0400

She constantly texts this girl, she talks to her and fails to mention it but insists that she shows me every text message. She was just caught emotionally cheating on me with a girl that lives 2 hours away. She was deleting texts and facebook messages so that I wouldn’t see them so I am not sure she isn’t doing the same thing now.